MAN HAS VARIOUS desires. He has instinctive desires such as appetite for food and spriritual ones such as the wish for honour, acknowledgement, knowledge and beauty. He desires to do certainkinds of work in order to make the the best of himself. According to his character, capability, talent and environment, each man differs from others his desires. But no normal man is completely without desires. If man had no desires, there would be no activity, no culture and no arts. Because he has desires, man does all sorts of things to fulfill them. In that sense you can say that desires are the source and motivating power of all human activity.
Since you cannot wipe these desires out, it is important for you treat then properly and to place them in the correct proportions. What does this Mean?
Man’s desires are never as completely fulfilled as he want them to be, because when one is fulfilled, another takes its place, and when that is obtained he wants a third, and so on and on. Since desiresdevelopen endlessly, the attempt to find unlimited satisfaction can cause many problem, especially when efforts to fulfill them cause trouble to other people.
It is allright for you you try to satisfy you desires, but do it such a way as not to cause other people to suffer. If you give trouble to other people, it means that you are inviting a new problem for yourself, and in turn it will create another desire for you.
You should always remember that youu are not the only person who has desires.Yo May have to associate with a companion whose desires conflict with your won.
In addition to that, you should always know and realize the limits of your capability to achieveyour desires .Yoo should be reasonable wioth your ideals. For perhaps even as simple one . if circurtamce do not permits cannot be fulfilled satistfactorily. Don’t set your objective too high, because if you fall, the fall is far more painfull from a higher place than from alower one. Yo will suffer more servere frustration or you may even becomes seriously depressed.
GEOGLOBE
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Desires Have Limits.
Genuine Parental Love
Real Love enables parents to see when their children are disturbed, disappointed, trobled or heading for trouble. It enables them to discover some shortcomings or faults in their children, not just for the sake of finding the faults in their children. Not just for the sake of finding the faults in themselves. But in order to improve the children they love.
Parents who don’t they love their children often don’t know where their children go and what activities their children participate in. They don’t know if the children have friends who offer them drugs or encourage them to steal.ome children get into a lot of trouble because their parents don’t care about them.
There are parents who try to show their love for their children by giving them everything they ask for. As a result the children by giving them ask for . As a result the children become spoilt and selfish. Real love enables parents to see that not everything their children want willhelp them to improve and grow up in the best way.
Parents who really love their children will find time not only tell them what to do, but also to listen to their children . As a result of two way communication, parents and children can learn to understand each other . Children will realize that theior parents have a reason for decisions.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
pray for my father
In the Name Allah, The Beneficent the Mercifull
Robbirhamhumaa kamaa robbayaanii shoghiiroo
“And Lower unto them the wing of submission through mercy and say. My Lord ! Have mercy on them both as they did care for me when I was little” [Al Israa’:24]
Robbighfir lii wa li waalidayya wa li man dakhola baytiya mu’minan wa lilmu’miniina wal mu’minaati wa laa tazidizh zhoolimiina illa tabaaro
“My Lord! Forgive me and my farents and him who entereth my house believing men and believing women, and increase not the wrong – doers in aught save ruin” [Nuh:28]
Robbighfir lii wa li waalidayya warhamhumaa kamaa robbayaanii shoghiiroo
Monday, November 24, 2008
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Is Love Really Blind ?
THERE IS A saying that “love is Blind:, it refers to an erotic love when a young lover is unable to see any shortcomings in the person with whom he or she is in love.
In this case, it is not the love itself that is blind, but the erostic mood of the person concerned maked him blind to the real situation.
Not that the faults in his opposite sex, but he just won’t see them.
He always tends to get rid of any sensible and critical thoughts about the persons he loves.
But real love is actually not blind! It has eyes and can even help you to see many things that you otherwise won’t be able to see. Genuine love can see boths faults and the good in other persons.
It has eyes that see deeper than what appears merely on the surface. It is so sincere that it cannot be influenced by physical appearances and the feelings of like and dislike.
Genuine love has eyes also because it is not blinded by pride, prejudice or greed. It able to see fine qualities in others. Not looking down on them foreign ancestors. Adifferent skin clour or come from different etnic region.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
My Father
Give 'em a hug, a great big kiss.
Because one day, he will be greatly missed.
My daddy has gone far away from this land,
I miss the precious touch of his loving hands.
I never knew last year was the last day,
I could look at my daddy, hug him, and say:
"I love you, Daddy! Happy Father's Day!"
Don't let one day go by without telling him
how dear he is!
Remember you may not have another year to tell him this!
All I have now is great memories, a heart
full of love and eyes full of tears, and
to remember his love throughout the years.
Now I will have to look up at the stars and
say, "I love you, Daddy! Happy Father's Day!"
Please remember when you pray, to thank your
heavenly father up above.
For your father he gave you with so much love.
My Father
I was not able to accompany you
The sky clouded profound sorrows
Those tumultuous spoke
About all the charity
I come to you, father
Breezy in the bottom of cambodia and nisanmu
I cry and pray
Use one and all my fault to you, father
How should love and pity
How to be patient and honorable sacrifice
How should fight for the children
Until the last live
You continue to pray for the happiness children
Today I called my father
Through poems to remember you
When the time comes later
will be tell all the pomp
Together with the morning dew drought include my prayer
Hopefully you get the best place in the side of his
Father,
I Miss U. I Always Pray, pray, pray for you
