MAN HAS VARIOUS desires. He has instinctive desires such as appetite for food and spriritual ones such as the wish for honour, acknowledgement, knowledge and beauty. He desires to do certainkinds of work in order to make the the best of himself. According to his character, capability, talent and environment, each man differs from others his desires. But no normal man is completely without desires. If man had no desires, there would be no activity, no culture and no arts. Because he has desires, man does all sorts of things to fulfill them. In that sense you can say that desires are the source and motivating power of all human activity.
Since you cannot wipe these desires out, it is important for you treat then properly and to place them in the correct proportions. What does this Mean?
Man’s desires are never as completely fulfilled as he want them to be, because when one is fulfilled, another takes its place, and when that is obtained he wants a third, and so on and on. Since desiresdevelopen endlessly, the attempt to find unlimited satisfaction can cause many problem, especially when efforts to fulfill them cause trouble to other people.
It is allright for you you try to satisfy you desires, but do it such a way as not to cause other people to suffer. If you give trouble to other people, it means that you are inviting a new problem for yourself, and in turn it will create another desire for you.
You should always remember that youu are not the only person who has desires.Yo May have to associate with a companion whose desires conflict with your won.
In addition to that, you should always know and realize the limits of your capability to achieveyour desires .Yoo should be reasonable wioth your ideals. For perhaps even as simple one . if circurtamce do not permits cannot be fulfilled satistfactorily. Don’t set your objective too high, because if you fall, the fall is far more painfull from a higher place than from alower one. Yo will suffer more servere frustration or you may even becomes seriously depressed.
GEOGLOBE
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Desires Have Limits.
Genuine Parental Love
Real Love enables parents to see when their children are disturbed, disappointed, trobled or heading for trouble. It enables them to discover some shortcomings or faults in their children, not just for the sake of finding the faults in their children. Not just for the sake of finding the faults in themselves. But in order to improve the children they love.
Parents who don’t they love their children often don’t know where their children go and what activities their children participate in. They don’t know if the children have friends who offer them drugs or encourage them to steal.ome children get into a lot of trouble because their parents don’t care about them.
There are parents who try to show their love for their children by giving them everything they ask for. As a result the children by giving them ask for . As a result the children become spoilt and selfish. Real love enables parents to see that not everything their children want willhelp them to improve and grow up in the best way.
Parents who really love their children will find time not only tell them what to do, but also to listen to their children . As a result of two way communication, parents and children can learn to understand each other . Children will realize that theior parents have a reason for decisions.
