- Always speak politely to the parents, do not scold, scold or beat them. Because if only to say "AH" is not allowed in Islam.
- Always obedient to parents, for not to do disobedience to Allah SWT.
- Always be gentle, not surly in front of them.
- Always keep a good name, honor and property of both parents, and do not take anything without their permission.
- Always do the things that can ease their task , even without orders.
- Always consulted with them on every issue and apologize properly if there is a difference of opinion.
- Always come quickly, if they call.
- Always respect the family and their friends.
- Always polite in explaining each problem. Do not say objection them with harsh words.
- Always helping mothers in the work at home and help his father work outside the home (for a living).
- Always pray for them both.
- Do not argue with their orders or raised his voice above their voices.
- Do not go into a place / room to them, before getting permission.
- Do not precede their meal and eat them in respect of food and beverages.
- Do not criticize them, if they do something bad.
- If you smoke, do not be before them.
- If you have been able / able to find sustenance, help them.
- Try to get up from my seat / bed, if they come.
- If you ask for something from the parents, ask gently, thank for providing them, forgive if they do not meet our demands and not too much to ask in order not to disturb them.
- Do not get out of the home / away before they were allowed, even for important business. If forced to go, then apologize to them.
- Visit them as often as possible, give a gift, thanks to education and their efforts and take a lesson from your kids how difficult it is to educate them. Like how hard we train hard our parents.
- The person who is entitled to respect is the mother, and father. Know that Paradise is under mothers feet.
- Prayer both parents in the good or evil in the received by Allah. So be careful of their prayers bad.
- Try not to hurt their parents or make them angry, so make ourselves miserable in the world and the hereafter. Remember, your children will treat you as you treat your parents.
- Both parents have rights over you, wife / husband has a right over you. If an when they disagree, try to reconcile and give each one a gift in secret.
- Be polite to every parent, because the person who insults the other parent with his own parents chided.
(from: Sheikh Mohammed bin Zameel Zeeno)
